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It’s What Motivates Me

Posted by On February - 28 - 2011

I’m a spur-of-the-moment kind of girl.  Not necessarily the drop everything and go kind of girl that I used to be, but an instant planner.  My husband can mention a random event in passing and 15 minutes later I’m bombarding him with the best dates to do it and how to get there and where we should stay and how much the whole thing is going to cost.  At that moment I am 100% ready to go….15 minutes (or less)…and my husband is left trying to remember if he was the one who’d set the whole trip in motion.

So, what motivates me?  Let me walk you through the three adventures I’ve wanted to embark on just this week.

To witness, or be a part of, history.
My sister called this week to ask what channel would be broadcasting the launch of space shuttle Discovery.  Three minutes before blast off we found it on CNN and then the NASA channel.  I recorded it and watched later with my family.  Watching instantly took me back to 3rd grade, sitting in my school desk, watching the launch and subsequent explosion of the Challenger.  It moved me.  It was my husband who later reminded me there are only going to be two more shuttle launches in the entirety of history.

Getting from Utah to Florida for a space launch is not an overnight jaunt.  Plane tickets, lodging and rental cars are going to cost a bit of money.  But can you put a price on creating memories?  The last two launches are scheduled for April 19 and June 28 and I want to be there.  When my children are writing school reports about space, I want them to have first-hand stories to tell.  When the world starts to forget this incredible part of United States history, I want to have first-hand knowledge to share and remind them.

Anything Is Worth Free
I have a NASCAR family (at least at the beginning of the season).  My dream would be to buy the RV infield weekend package and surprise my dad with the trip of a lifetime.  However, until I wake up in a bed of money, I’m more than willing to get in on the events more within my budget.  This weekend’s Kobalt 400 race in Las Vegas is the closest the NASCAR circuit will come to me this year.

Of course I want to go.  At first it was just a joke with my husband.  It would get us out of a weekend of church stake conference meetings.  Then I discovered there are two days full of free activities well worth seeing.  On Thursday there are autograph sessions with drivers we follow and my dad’s favorite racer, Danica Patrick.  Both Thursday and Friday you can watch practice laps and qualifying laps in the stadium for free.  And Thursday night the NASCAR car haulers parade down the Las Vegas strip.  After paying for gas and dirt-cheap Las Vegas lodging, it’s an entire weekend of free!

It’s There!
Utah is an extremely diverse state and I’ve explored nearly every inch of it.  I feel sad to talk with people who live here and have never ventured away from their mile of the Wasatch front-especially in Utah County. We’re right in the middle!  Nowhere is too far from here.  Moab is the perfect place to get away from the mid-winter blahs!  I’ve learned that south of I-70 does not automatically guarantee it’s always going to be warm enough for camping, but even in March the days are beautiful.  Fresh air and sun on your skin.  Who doesn’t want a little bit of that?

Getting YOU Out There
Unfortunately, I’m probably not going on any of these trips soon.  We’re working hard to pay off debt and save money for our 2012 multi-month get-away.  And so, if I can’t go, I want to find an opportunity that will inspire you.  How great it makes me feel to pass on dates and times for local parades or festivals or share my travel “secrets”  when friends are heading out of town.  I love planning and finding good deals and am more than happy to do the dirty work if it will get someone else out on the road.

These are a few of the things that motivate me.  Traveling is what gets me excited.  Exploring and experiencing make up a huge part of who I am.  And I guarantee that this week I’ll have a whole new bundle of ideas about where to go and what to do.  Want to come along with me?

Book Review: Finding Dad

Posted by On February - 28 - 2011

Finding DadFinding Dad by Alma J. Yates

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

PG6: Some of the dad’s past is a little rough, he having been unfaithful and excommunicated from the church, but the book does an excellent job dealing with the consequences and his path back to activity.

This is my second Alma Yates read, and I loved it just as much as the other one. I read Race to Eden about a year ago.

I liked the manner in which the book dealt with the consequences of the dad’s mistakes, as well as how it dealt with the budding romance that was taking place. A great book that encourages strong family ties, and helps you see how great it is to have those you love.

The storytelling is very good, too. I was pulled into the story right away, and it kept my attention the whole time.

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A Quick Side Note

Posted by On February - 28 - 2011

I recently wrote a guest post for my favorite money-saving website, MoneySavingMom.com.

Take a look when you have a minute ;)

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Guest Post

Posted by On February - 28 - 2011

If you have a second, check out my guest post on my go-to website for frugality, MoneySavingMom.com.

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Paul Tackles Old Age

Posted by On February - 28 - 2011

Jumbo remotePaul seems to think my eyes aren’t able to see quite as well as when I was his age. So for his latest project he programmed a jumbo universal remote that Megan bought from Deseret Industries. It cost $1.50 because the battery cover was missing. But there is nothing that Paul can’t fix with a little duct tape.

At the moment the remote will control the television and the VCR. It also controls the family room and stair lights because Paul thinks my legs aren’t getting any younger either.

Paul figured if he gave me the remote directly I would be offended and wouldn’t use it so he left it laying on the couch. Right on cue I picked it up and started trying the buttons. Tonight I looked on the remote hoping to find a jumbo “PP” button — the one that will turn off Paul’s Projects, at least for a little while.
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Heads Carolina, tails California

Posted by On February - 28 - 2011

Fact: I travelled a lot as a child. (boo- just saying “fact” depresses me because I have literally not seen an episode of The Office for weeks…*moment of silence at the solemnity of that statement*)

I have seen most states in the U.S from the passengers seat of my dads semi truck or from the back seat of a van/SUV (“back seat, feet on the hump!” NAME THE COMEDIAN?). We didn’t have a ton of money growing up but my parents understood the value of memories and boy do I have them because of road trips!

Don’t even get me started on the toilet my dad put in the back seat so we didn’t have to stop.

Road trips are my favorite thing in the world. I will take any excuse to take one. I love everything about it- the snacks, the music, the conversation, the snacks, the sites, the way I feel when the windows are down, the snacks…everything. There is something so wonderful about seeing Gods beauty firsthand through the passengers seat window.

Last weeks excuse was a “study trip” to Casa Grande with my favorite dental hygiene girls. In reality, we just really needed to get away from the craziness that is our last semester of school and were craving Eegees. Did I mention school is crazy? I have no nails again from being nervous all the time. Its real attractive.

Before we embarked on the drive to Casa Grande, we just had to stop at our favorite local Mexican food place, Chicos to grab some nachos as an appetizer. I know what you are thinking- “seriously? You went on a road trip for food and you ate a whole plate of nachos before you even left?”

Yep. And I ate every bite of my Eegess too, thankyaverymuch!

Call me a heffer and see what happens. Seriously, I dare you.

I take Kenpo and Tae Bo, just so you know
MMMMMMMM Pina Colada! Who wants to take my next road trip with me? Anyone? Buhler?

P and an S-

I completely forgot to tag 5 bloggers in my last post about the 4 lies and a truth! Please forgive- I hadn’t had chocolate all day, therefore this here brain don’t function (pretend that doesn’t happen to you!) Here are the 5 I choose-

Megan@ Mackey Madness
Shay@ The Nelson Diary

Sam@ Love Never Fails

Lula @ Lulapalooza
Heather @Some Kind of Wonderful

Mallori@ Life is Beautiful

Alexis@ A Beautiful Day to be Alive

I know there are more than 5. I never was good at counting. I tagged you too, just so you know. So let me know if you do it because my middle name happens to be Sherlock. Or maybe its Elizabeth. You’ll never know.

Congrats on the worst smelling armpit award, ladies;-) Totally understand if you ladies aren’t down to do a little tag post, but it’s fun if you have nothing to say that day:-)

Peace, love, Pina Coladas, ranch fries, sub sandwiches….and nachos!

Obeying the Commandments

Posted by On February - 28 - 2011

As we were finishing up supper last night (at 5:00), The Teenager remembered that each boy was supposed to bring a dozen cookies to the fireside (which starts at 7:00).  Grrr!

So I jumped up and started making the dough. I scooped up 2 trays and then tasted the dough. It was salty! I looked back over the recipe and realized that with the salt and baking soda, instead of tripling the recipe, I multiplied it by 9. Nine!  Grrrrrrr! I was going to dump it and start over, but The Teenager said we could fix it. So we started gathering up ingredients and mixing.

The Teenager then made an interesting observation. He said, “It’s a good thing we’re Mormons.” I asked him why, and he said because we have a big food storage and had all the ingredients so we could multiply it all by 9. I said it’s not just because we are Mormon, but because we follow the advice of our prophet. But he was right. I had everything I needed.

Sometimes we find that our food storage saves us in the small moments, not just the big ones.  And to me, that can be even more important.



An Evening with Richard Bushman

Posted by On February - 28 - 2011

About a thousand other people and I enjoyed an evening with Richard Bushman last night. He spoke about Joseph and Emma for about 40 minutes and then entertained questions from the audience for another 40 minutes. While his insights on Joseph and Emma were interesting, I found the questions more fascinating, because they reflected a lot of the issues I blog about.

For those who don’t know, Richard Bushman is the author of Rough Stone Rolling, the 2005 biography of Joseph Smith that has become the definitive account of the prophet’s life as told from the viewpoint of a faithful historian. I took advantage of the opportunity to have him autograph my copy and was not the only one in the audience who waited in line to do so.

Open and honest discussion

It was wonderful to see so many people interested in learning more about this great man and the beginnings of the Mormon Church. Every time he finished answering a question a dozen more hands shot up. We could have been there for several more hours. I think that goes to show you how much we as a people appreciate someone who has studied the prophet’s life in such detail.

There were many questions that focused on the process of translating, the Urim and Thummim, the seer stone in the hat, polygamy, the three witnesses and the eight witnesses, Oliver Cowdery, the martyrdom, succession, Book of Abraham translation, Mountain Meadows massacre and folk magic. He welcomed every question and encouraged us to ask even the most difficult ones.

A well-qualified historian

One of the most refreshing comments I heard was his expression of appreciation to the church, specifically to the church historian’s office, Marlin K. Jensen and Richard E. Turley for the recent publication of Massacre at Mountain Meadows. He then said that he hoped that the church would do the same with the issue of polygamy, treating it openly and with historical accuracy.

Burt what impressed me most about the evening was the obvious fact that Richard Bushman is a highly respected historian who probably understands the beginnings of Mormonism as well as or better than anyone else. Besides being the co-general editor of the Joseph Smith Papers, he chairs the board of directors of the Mormon Scholars Foundation.  He knows early church history.

Serving faithfully in the church

And yet, Richard Bushman has served as a bishop, a stake president, a patriarch and is currently a sealer in the Los Angeles temple.  I would say that he is a faithful, believing Latter-day Saint, in spite of everything he knows about early church history.  I bring this up specifically to make a point about a common response to my essays and how I can still believe when I know this stuff.

I recently had someone ask me how I was able to do what I do – serve faithfully in the church – in spite of all that I know about, as he called it, “the more disturbing facts of the origins of Mormonism.”  I think maybe he might want to redirect that question to someone like Richard Bushman who knows so much more than I do and yet has been a faithful believer all his life.

Believing in spite of knowing

This individual asked, “How do you reconcile your belief and what the church teaches, with the history of things like the origins of the temple ceremony, polygamy, first vision contradictions, development of the story of the restoration of the priesthood, and other issues?”  I answered him privately in an email but have been pondering this whole idea of believing in spite of knowing.

Frankly, it perplexes me. I think I have expressed this same sentiment several times in previous essays every time it comes up. What is so hard about studying and understanding our very early church history, warts and all, and then continuing to believe that Joseph Smith was an instrument in the hands of God to bring about the restoration of the gospel and his church in the latter days?

Shocked by our history

Are we supposed to be shocked, dismayed and overwhelmed with doubt every time we discover some new fact about the early days of the church?  For example, last night we were reminded that beer and wine were used by the early saints, and sometimes even whiskey.  Today, we would be shocked if we learned that the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles drank a glass of wine.

Yet in volume IV, page 120 of the History of the Church on the date of April 17 1840 we read, “This day the Twelve blessed and drank a bottle of wine at Penworthan, made by Mother Moon forty years before.”  Things were different back then, weren’t they?  The Word of Wisdom had been received in 1833 but was not binding upon the saints as a commandment like it is today.

History not being hidden

When Fanny Alger was brought up by Brother Bushman last night as an example of an early failed attempt by Joseph to obey the law of plural marriage, I’ll bet there were a few people in the audience who did not know that Joseph had married this sixteen year old girl in 1833. The revelation on celestial marriage had been received in 1831 but Joseph was hesitant to obey.

For some reason, the idea that Joseph participated in plural marriage is supposed to be shocking to us. This continues to be one of the most common tactics of our critics – to try to shock us with facts that are supposedly being hidden from us by our modern church leaders.  Nothing could be further from the truth. We are always being encouraged to study our history and learn the facts.

Selling the Book of Mormon Copyright

Another example that our critics like to throw at us is the failed attempt to sell the copyright to the Book of Mormon in Canada. Until recently, the only source for this event was the memory of David Whitmer who was not present when Joseph sent the brethren on their mission.  Joseph never said that it must have been a false revelation as Whitmer claimed he said upon their return.

We’re then supposed to conclude that if we can’t trust a revelation from Joseph then how are we supposed to know what is revelation from God. I’m not an apologist but I’m grateful that there are people who dig into these things to get the facts and present them for our review.  Of course, the same facts can be presented in favorable or unfavorable light, depending on where you go.

Consider carefully the source

For example, you can read the story of the copyright mission to Canada on MormonThink as supposed evidence that even Joseph Smith didn’t know when revelations were from God and when they were from the devil.  Yet you can read the same account in greater clarity and detail from a more trustworthy and reliable source like FAIR and come away strengthened in faith.

We could go on and on with hundreds of things that are supposed to be shocking to us modern believers of the faith because they seem so out of character with what we’ve been taught about Joseph or other leaders of the early LDS church. If we are bothered by something, then we need to do our homework and get all the facts as part of the process of confirming truth for ourselves.

Get the facts straight

If I were concerned upon reading that Joseph Smith was supposed to have said that even he didn’t know when a prophecy came from the Lord or that he is supposed to have said that a revelation he received must have come from the devil, as David Whitmer said he did, then I would want to read more about this and would be very careful about the source that I study.

Because if I believed that Joseph really said this, then that might lead me to conclude that if even prophets have a hard time understanding revelation, how can I really be expected to understand or know the truth of revelations that come to me, especially revelation that I think is telling me that the church itself is true? Do you see how important it is to get the facts of certain matters?

The Joseph Smith Papers

Of course Joseph never said that he must have received a false revelation.  In fact, according to more recent information discovered, the brethren who went on the mission to Canada in an attempt to sell the copyright to the Book of Mormon felt that they were successful on their mission and that the Lord was pleased with their efforts. The promised sale was conditional.

I’m grateful for brethren like Richard Bushman, who are helping to bring us the Joseph Smith papers. In volume 1 of the Manuscript Revelation Books, we have the full copy of the mission to Canada revelation. It can be read there. The criticism that Joseph later claimed that the revelation had not come from God is in all likelihood the product of a false memory by David Whitmer.

We can believe the prophet

As I wrote in a previous essay, I believe it is our lifelong pursuit to understand revelation and to come to know how the Lord communicates with each of us. We can rely on the promises of the Lord to lead us, guide us and walk beside us because we have the gift of the Holy Ghost. I hope we cherish this gift and live worthy of the constant companionship of this promised revelator.

Joseph Smith knew when the Lord was inspiring him and so did most of the brethren who were with him at the time when he received revelation. We can trust that the Lord will help us to have the assurances we need to believe in the mission of the prophet Joseph Smith. Someday, we will meet Brother Joseph and if we still have questions about his life we can ask them to him directly.

Follow the Traffic – or not

Posted by On February - 28 - 2011

I have just spent close to an hour writing a post called Follow the Traffic- only to have accidentally deleted it.

At first I was mad.  I put a lot of thought and effort into it.  It was a good one, too!

But  I guess I just wasn’t supposed to write about that today.

Perhaps I should write about how, sometimes, life just doesn’t go the way we plan- and that’s OK.  There is a higher power, a

Birthdays

Posted by On February - 28 - 2011

It seems like we have a lot of birthdays starting mid-January through March. We celebrated Ashton’s birthday, my mom’s birthday, Aurora’s birthday, and also my father-in-law’s birthday in the past month or so, and we still have my dad’s birthday and Morley’s birthday coming up. Good thing we love to party!

Speaking of parties, here are a couple of shots from my father-in-law’s birthday celebration:

A picture of Rick opening his sacrificial anode

Opening presents

A picture of Aurora and Bryson helping Grandpa open his presents

Aurora and Bryson helping Grandpa open his presents

A picture of Bryson using Grandpa's new golf club set

Bryson using Grandpa’s new golf club set

A picture of Aurora carrying a gift bag down the stairs

Aurora using a gift bag as a purse

A picture of Bryson trying to steal the gift bag from Aurora

You gotta fight for your right to parrr-tay!

A picture of Jill and Sarah

Mother and daughter – both so pretty!

I should have taken a picture of the food; it was excellent! We had a lot of fun with everyone. My father-in-law has a great sense of humor, and it makes it fun to just listen to him. (Plus he and his brothers and sister-in-law have English accents, and I love love listening to accents!) He’s also a very kind, giving, and knowledgeable man. We all look up to him and his great example!

We hope you had a great birthday, Rickety!

And the award goes to…

Posted by On February - 28 - 2011

If you want to see all of our Blue and Gold Cake Contest Entries, click here.And the winners were:Best Technology CakeBest Sports CakeMost “Mormon” Cake….(well, the certificate was already printed and SOMEBODY had to get it.)Most Disgusting CakeBest Scout Cake

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints’ regional website for New Zealand and the Pacific Islands discloses the existence of a video showing four LDS sister missionaries discussing their experiences of the 6.3 “aftershock” in Christchurch, New Zealand which took place on February 22nd, 2011. While classified as an “aftershock”, the effects have been more severe and widespread than the original 7.0 September 2010 earthquake.

The missionaries are identified as Sister Geraline Fafai and Sister Evelyn Tepa, both from Brisbane, Australia; Sister Taake Moantau from Tarawa, Kiribati; and Sister Emily Wu from Taipei, Taiwan. All four young women had been serving in Christchurch, but since the quake have been re-assigned to other parts of the Wellington New Zealand Mission. One of the missionaries noted that she missed a local bus she normally took; that bus turned out to be the bus upon which a building partially fell. All other LDS missionaries in New Zealand were found to be safe and accounted for shortly after the quake struck:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jR8-r5G-kq0

The LDS Church’s New Zealand website also discloses that there have been no deaths or life threatening injuries reported for any Church members. Approximately 30 Latter-day Saint families have been displaced from their homes. Families are living with friends or extended family members. Some have left Christchurch due to trauma or home damage. LDS Church Physical Facilities Department personnel report that all four LDS chapels in the local area have suffered major structural damage in addition to some degree of liquefaction occurring in and around some of the buildings. None of the four chapels in Christchurch will be used until further notice and further engineering evaluation. The Church College of New Zealand campus is being made available to members and those not of our faith for respite accommodation

The New Zealand Herald continues to be the most comprehensive and authoritative local source for media stories on the earthquake. As of 6:13 A.M. on March 1st, New Zealand time, the death toll is now fixed at 154. A new forecast by GNS Science geological hazard modeller Matt Gerstenberger shows that in the next week Christchurch should expect between one and 10 aftershocks greater than magnitude four and within three weeks the number should drop to one magnitude four every three to four days. At least one magnitude-four quake per month is possible for the next 12 months. Buildings significantly weakened by previous quakes could fall. The Treasury’s early estimate of the damage of the February 22nd earthquake is $10 billion to $15 billion; that’s in addition to the $5 billion cost of the September 2010 quake, according to Prime Minister John Key.

A gallery of 88 photos is available HERE.

Information on how to donate to earthquake relief through the Red Cross available HERE.