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What is Important?

Posted by On October - 31 - 2008
Greetings, Gentle Reader,

With the great uncertainty families face in today’s economy, it can be well understood why many have allowed themselves to be caught up in despair and sorrow. We have one of the most divisive presidential elections in our nation’s history, the economy is failing and people are losing their homes, businesses and jobs. This could easily be a time where Americans could be mired down in the negatives and forget what we really should be concentrating on.

Our prophets have counseled us for ages to prepare for the future. They’ve urged us to prepare for all types of economic downturn, whether they be the byproduct of natural disasters or man-made? Many have listened and many have not. If you have been unable to get food storage and a preparedness plan in place, it is my recommendation you begin by purchasing Preparedness Principles by Barbara Salsbury, one of the foremost experts on preparedness, both disaster and provident, in the nation.

With all that being said, let’s take a moment and focus on what is really important today. God and family.

Do you take time to sit down to the dinner table with your family and night? Do you visit, laugh, talk and catch up as you eat, or is the evening meal endured in sullen or distracted silence?

When was the last time you got up on Saturday morning, rousted the kids out of bed and took them outside and worked with them side by side?

When was the last time you gathered your family together and read to them in the evenings from the scriptures? When was the last time you read a book together as a family? Just a chapter a night before you start your scripture reading.

When was the last time you made sure that your family did not begin their day without prayer and end it, gathered together, the same way?

This is what is important. Gordon B. Hinckley, many years ago, spoke of four things which woud effect a change in society within a generation or two. I have just listed them for you:

  • Pray with your families.
  • Teach goodness to your children.
  • Read good books together.
  • Teach your children a good, solid work ethic.
These four simple things implemented into family life will turn society around within a generation or two. That is no small thing?

And so I ask you to not focus on all the chaos going on around us right now and stop, assess your families as they function right now and ask yourselves, are you doing these four things?

May I suggest, with all the humility and love for my fellowman in my heart, that you begin to follow this wise counsel. You will find happiness in the smallest acts. Joy in the laughter of your family. Peace in the quiet stillness of the house as family prayer finishes and you hear “Goodnight, Mom and Goodnight, Dad” as your children disappear into their rooms at the close of day. And at that moment, when the house settles down and you are sitting there quietly on the couch, that is when you bow your head in gratitude and love to your Father in Heaven for trusting you with your precious children and spouse.

That, my friends, is what is most important.

Until next time,
Muriel Sluyter

Return to the Neighborhood.

Happy Halloween

Posted by On October - 31 - 2008

In case you were wondering, yes, Mormons can celebrate Halloween.  Many of us do.  We don’t seem to care about the history of it or the pagan aspect that concerns some people.  As far as I’m concerned, it’s just a day to feel like a kid again, dress up, and eat candy. 

Tonight our ward (congregation) will have our “Trunk or Treat”.  This is when we meet at the church parking lot and close it off at a certain time, making it safe for the kids to wander around.  Everyone who wants to decorates their trunks, the back of trucks or vans, and we hand out candy. 

Some wards even go as far as having a carnival, which the ward I grew-up in did.  Those were fun memories.  We had bobbing for apples, cotton candy, all sorts of games, and interesting costumes.

My mom is quite the artist and made me the best costumes for Halloween.  One year I was even a Christmas tree!  It’s fun to mix holidays like that.  I contemplated going as Mrs. Claus this year and making my baby a reindeer, but it was more money than I wanted to spend at the moment.  My mom made my sister and I the greatest costumes when we were in grade school.  I was a box of orange Jell-O.  It looked so realistic, people thought we got it from the Jell-O company.  I had a paper mache orange hat and a big box I stuck my arms and head through.  It had the directions on it and everything.  That year my sister was a box of Nestle Quik.

My costumes are quite creative, but don’t take as much talent.  Last year I was a bag of garbage.  It was cheap, easy, and disgusting.  I just used two large garbage sacks – one as a skirt and the other as a top.  I had all sorts of trash hanging out and I made this awesome garbage hat.  I got some really worried looks because of the Q-tips I had dipped in Dijon mustard and relieved looks when I told people I didn’t actually use them.  I also smeared mustard, avocado (I hear it’s good for your skin anyway), and Hershey’s syrup on my face to complete the look and made myself some eyeshadow with the syrup and avocado for a little bit of glamour.

Some or our ward members have an adult only party every year and it’s taken pretty seriously.  It is way fun to see what people will come up with next.  This year my husband and I dressed up like Charlie Brown and Lucy, only Charlie Brown was really ticked off.  You know that football stunt Lucy always pulls with him?  Well, the football ended up implanted in her head.  As a kid, I always wanted to see him lash out at her, so this was the way I made that dream happen.  Sort of. 

Every year as a mom, I get more into doing special Halloween foods.  You wrap some Pilsbury dough around some hot dogs and call them mummy dogs.  Regular food like cut corn, you can give it a different name like “yellow teeth”.  Then there’s “frighteningly fattening alfredo” (Ok, this is basically an excuse to eat fettucini alfredo because it’s delicious and the kids love it).  My husband takes them out trick-or-treating and when they get home, there’s hot chocolate waiting for them.  Last year I also made some grilled cheese sandwiches with pieces cut out on top to look like jack-o-lanterns.

However you celebrate (or don’t celebrate) Halloween, I hope you have a happy and safe one!

Personal Prayer

Posted by On October - 30 - 2008

I wanted to share an experience I had a year or so ago.  In our church, it is strongly emphasized how important it is to kneel down and talk to our Heavenly Father as a family and individually.  This is a habit I have struggled to keep as a mom, yet it’s the time I need it the most as I try to raise my children to love the Gospel, prepare them for the Second Coming of our Savior, and help them return to our Father in Heaven.

During a particularly trying time, I was just so upset and hardly got a moment alone.  All at once, everything was going wrong.  Less than a month before, I had had a miscarriage, I had received some other devastating news, I had a chronic health problem going on, and I needed so badly to have a quiet moment alone.

I had been crying quite a bit, trying to figure out how I was going to make it through this latest dilemma.  My appetite was gone and it was hard to keep a happy face, even for my kids.  It was quiet briefly and as I knelt down by my bed, my 4-year-old walked through the door.

Him:  What are you doing, Mom?

Me:  Praying.  (I felt a little bit annoyed.)

Him:  Why are you crying?

This wasn’t something I could even begin to discuss with him, so I paused.

Him:  Is it because you don’t know what to pray about?

Not knowing what else to say, I told him yes.  Just as my husband and I had helped him say his prayers many times before, he said, “I will tell you what to say.  Dear Heavenly Father, thank you for this day.  Thank you for our blessings ….”

I don’t remember everything he said, but I repeated each phrase after him.  This wasn’t what I had in mind, but I felt like he was a little angel sent to cheer me up and comfort me.  Hopefully it was also an example to him of how everyone needs to pray, even Mommy and Daddy who he thinks know everything. 

God does answer our prayers – in ways we don’t expect.

Fire Academy

Posted by On October - 29 - 2008



I am very grateful to my wife and children for allowing me to indulge myself in my boyhood dreams and interests. What started as a preparedness exercise has become an outlet for boyish excitement and fun.

I have been enrolled in the RCA (Recruit Candidate Academy) Fire Academy at UVU. It is taught through the department of Homeland Security. I knew that the academy was structured as a para-military environment, but I didn’t realize how difficult it would be to prepare for. I have enjoyed the challenging environment and the competition that others 10 years younger provide.

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Oh My Gourdness!

Posted by On October - 29 - 2008

Today was a blessing.  It was beautiful and I got to go on a field trip with my son’s first grade class to the pumpkin patch.  The sun was shining, my baby slept most of the time, I got to meet some interesting people, and I made a new friend.

While I was feeding my daughter, I saw another mom watching her two boys and I asked her if she was there with the school too.  She was there with her son’s preschool.  Our sons hit it off and while they played, she told me about her fascinating life.  She is from Russia and married an American she met at home while she was working as an interpreter.  She ended up being his interpreter and now here she is.  I was so touched to hear how she had her two kids by c-section and because she wants more children, she and her husband have decided to adopt two children at once from the Ukraine.  The surgeries were too hard on her, one causing her to be in the hospital for 5 days. 

We both shared our struggles we had previously with infertility and I laughed as I heard she discovered she was pregnant on her first visit to an infertility specialist.  It was nice talking to someone not a member of my church who didn’t give me weird looks when I told her I want one more child.  I was delighted when she asked for my phone number and I hope we will get together soon.  She seems like such a nice person.

I love children.  I was so grateful to be there today with three of mine, enjoying the beautiful things around us God made and the fresh air.  It would’ve been easier to stay home with my 8-week-old, but I knew I would regret it if I didn’t go.  We had our difficult moments like we always do, but it was worth it.  We had an unfortunate incident in the Honey Bucket involving my four-year-old not believing me when I told him the toilet was too high for him.  I ended up retrieving my water from the van and used it to clean off the outhouse floor.  Yuck.  But I quickly appreciated the fact that it would make a funny story later.

Sanitation/ Personal Hygiene

Posted by On October - 28 - 2008

Sanitation – Personal Care

Bathing: (We discussed soap inventory needs in soap section)

In the event you had limited water for bathing, your choices for cleaning up would be:
1 – Shallow baths in your tub if you could use it (no broken pipes) and didn’t want to keep the water.
2 – Bath in extra large round tub near heat source. (Do you have something you can use for this if need be?)

3 – Chilly dips in outside water

4 – Camp shower bags (pre bought) hung (either in existing tub or in an out doors area) water is heated by the sun. You would probably need several for a family.

5 – There are clever ways to make showers out of 5 gallon buckets with spigots or holes that are placed on a ladder or high shelf, filled with warm water, you stand underneath, and shower quick

6 – Sponge bath
Shampoo
Each family member needs as an average minimum, one gallon of shampoo per year. That would be enough to wash your hair about once a week, depending on how much shampoo you use.

Shampoo Alternatives:
1 – Work some dry baking soda (dip damp fingers into a small bowlful) into hair and scalp, then rinse it off with warm water, you will have squeaky clean hair.

2 – Homemade Shampoo

4 oz of castile soap with any scent is that available –– plain, peppermint, eucalyptus.
Choose whatever herbs you feel like your hair needs
½ oz of rosemary – stimulates the hair follicles and helps to prevent premature baldness
½ oz of sage –– has antioxidants and keeps things from spoiling and is antibacterial

½ oz of nettles –– acts as a blood purifier, blood stimulator, contains a large source of nutrients for hair growth

½ of lavender –– controls the production of sebaceous gland oil and reduces itchy and flaky scalp conditions

Mix the herbs in a mason jar, which has a lid. Boil 2 cups of distilled water. Add 3 heaping tablespoons of the mixed herbs into the boiling water. Pull the boiling water and herbs off the stove. Let the herb mixture sit for 30 –– 40 minutes. Strain the herbal mixture into a bowl.

Pour 2 to 2 1/2 oz of strained herbal tea into the 8 oz plastic bottle. Now, pour the 4 oz of castile soap into the 8 oz plastic bottle. Cap the bottle and shake to mix the ingredients.

The shampoo is now finished and ready for use. Use this as a base for all of the shampoos you make. You can add different herbs as you learn what these herbs do and how they help your hair. You can vary the ingredients according to your taste.

3 – Shampoo Recipe from Scratch
2 lb 10 oz olive oil
1 ob 7 oz solid vegetable shortening
1 lb of coconut or other oil
10 1/4 oz lye
2 pint water
1 ½ oz glycerin (available at pharmacies)
½ oz alcohol
1 ½ oz castor oil
Mix oils together. Place in a container and set the container in a large pan. Mix the lye solution – pour the lye into an enamel coated container of 2 pints cold water and stir steadily (How to make lye instructions are in the soap section) When cooled pour lye solution into a glass container and set in another large pan. Bring both to between 95* and 98* (candy thermometer works perfectly for this) this will mean pouring either cold or hot water into the pans, depending on original temperature of the ingredients.

Add the lye solution to the oils, pouring in a steady stream while continuing to stir. This mixture will turn opaque and brownish then will lighten. It is ready when its surface can support a drop of mixture for a moment/ the consistency should be like sour cream. Pour Mixture into molds and allow to harden. Make the shampoo as you need it by shaving off flakes and boiling in water until they dissolve, about one pond of shavings per gallon of water. You can add more water to the mixture, boil and allow to cool then place in bottle for use.

Hair Conditioner
½ cup olive oil
½ cup vegetable oil
½ cup honey

Combine ingredients and heat until boiling. Remove from heat and let cool. Pour into a plastic spray bottle and spray wet hair. Wrap in damp cloth and leave for one our. Shampoo and rinse.
Hair Spray
Can be made with watered down corn syrup
Toothpaste

To determine your yearly needs, track your families tooth paste use for a week and times that by 52. The general rule is one large tube per family member per month.

You also need to have extra toothbrushes and floss stored as well. One way to extend your toothbrushes in a survival situation is to boil them for 5 minutes once a month.

1 – Here is a good recipe—>Ben Franklin used this.
Mix honey and ground charcoal, mix into a paste and rub on teeth for whiteness…I read where he only had 2 teeth left when he died, maybe this is why!

2 – Seriously here is a toothpaste mixture -
Mix 3 parts baking soda with one part salt.
Add 3 tsp of glycerin for every 1/4 cup of this mixture. Then add enough water to make a thick paste. Add peppermint oil for better taste.

3 – Toothpaste Mixture #2 -
1/4 tsp peppermint oil
1 tsp spearmint
1/4 cup arrowroot
1/4 cup powdered orrisroot
1/4 cup water
1 tsp ground sage

Mix all ingredients in a bowl. Add water until paste is desired thickness and consistency.
4 – Indians used sage to clean their teeth. They plucked a leaf and rubbed all over their teeth until they were clean.
5 – Another thing used was strawberries.
6 – Pine needles have also been used.
Mouthwash
1 – 2 cups water
3 tsp parsley
2 tsp whole cloves
2 tsp ground cinnamon
2 tsp peppermint extract
Boil water and remove from heat. Add dry ingredients and allow to steep for 10-15 mins. Strain and store in a tightly covered container. You can substitute other flavorings fro peppermint if desired.
Hand Lotion (This is the old RS lotion that used to be sold at Church Bazaar’s)
12 oz glycerin
½ ox 28% ammonia
½ oz boric acid
4 oz steric acid
½ oz cocoa butter or beeswax
2 cup hot water.
Melt glycerin, steric acid and cocoa butter in glass or enamel double boiler. Remove from heat and stir until milky with a wooden spoon, Add boric acid already dissolved in 2 cups hot water, Add ammonia. Beat 10 minutes with mixer.
You can do searches on the internet and find many more recipes. These are recipes that have been tried and used by myself or people I know.

Sanitary Pads
Attached are the instructions to make sanitary pads. These have many uses as well as what they are meant for. This pattern is for you to use if you ever run out of this particular item. (Heaven Forbid!)

Look through this personal care area and determine what your family needs to keep clean. I read a talk once by Brigham Young, I don’t know where it is right now, but he was talking to the Priesthood Brethren about the need to take a bath more than once a month as their wives were complaining!
Evaluate your family’s personal care needs.
How much shampoo do you use? How much would you need in an emergency situation?
How much toothpaste and tooth brushes do you need? If the electricity went out, you would need toothbrushes to take the place of electric toothbrushes.

How much soap do you use and need
also look at your toilet paper needs.

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Sanitation/ Soap

Posted by On October - 28 - 2008

Sanitation- Soap

During any type of disaster one of the biggest challenges is cleanliness. Disease and sickness are spread because of lack of ability to wash hands and dispose of garbage and waste.

It is so important to keep our hands clean, have the ability to wash clothing and keep our area of living clean from refuse, waste and garbage.

Soap is a great item to add to your storage. It is a great morale booster and is one of the top 10 things on barter lists. It is also one of the top 10 things to disappear in a disaster.

There are soaps for different purposes:
Hand Soap
Shampoo
Dish Soap
Laundry Soap
Cleaners for your house
Hand Soap:
When you purchase hand soap, make sure you buy the antibacterial soap.
Your supplies need to include one bar of soap per person per month.
Before you use your bars of soap, let them dry out to last longer.
When you get down to slivers of soap left. Put them in a nylon sock, tie the end shut and you will have the best hand, foot, and elbow scrubber!

Dish Soap
You need the basics to keep your dishes clean, such as dish soap, dish cloths, dish towels, a drainer, SOS pads, and scrubbers.

You need enough dish cloths to trade them everyday. Dish clothes and sponges harbor all kinds of things that will make you sick. I read a report that said many people who think they have the flu often, in reality are having small cases of food poisoning from the dish clothes they do their dishes with. They leave them out and use them for several days. What would happen if you left bits and pieces of food out and they were dampish then you ate them after several days? Wash your cloths at the end of each day!

If you do not have hot water, you will need some type of pot that can heat water over a fire. No, not your kitchen pots unless they are specifically designed for fire. Direct fire heating is much hotter than your stove. Cast iron works the best over a fire.

If you can’t use your sink you will need two dish pans, one for rinsing and one for washing. Three works even better so you can have a bleach final rinse.
Remember, if you are now using a dishwasher you will need quite a bit more than you are used to using.
Wash your dishes for one day, all of them. Make note of how much dish soap you use and times that by 30. The general rule is you need one small bottle of dish soap per month per person. If you are cooking with a fire, you will use more dish soap than you do now cooking with your stove. (Remember, do not use soap on cast iron or you will lose your cure. Salt works great instead)

Laundry Soap
We wash our clothes a lot. In a crisis they could be washed less often. You will need supplies to wash your clothing by hand if we didn’t have electricity. Generations past used rocks, then washboards. You will need a big tub to wash in and something else to rinse in. The fine things such as underwear are the easiest to wash. Using a plunger works much like a washing machine does….you would need to enlist several people to do this, because it takes a lot of muscles!
Soap–get antibacterial
Washboard
Plunger
Baking Soda

Clorox
If you have a baby you will need some type of diaper pail once your disposables run out.
Cleaners for your house
Look at the items you use to clean your home with. Every month add a few of these to your storage. Look to see what cleaners can do several jobs so you don’t have to store as many supplies. You will also need rags, buckets etc.
Another thing to have a back up of is a good broom. If you can’t vacuum your home, you would have to sweep your carpets.
Keeping clean with limited water in a crisis
Heat water in a large kettle on cook stove
Take out what water is needed for dishes and to keep counters clean for the day
Reserve one cup of water for brushing teeth
Reserve another quart for each person to wash their hands through the day.
Water that is used for rinse water for the dishes can be used to bath children and wash faces. Any extra used to flush potties.

Water that has been used to wash dishes can be used to mop floors or saved to flush the toilet if you are able to use it.

You can also purify it as listed in the water section to water plants and gardens.
Before mopping the floor add some spic and span to cut the grease

Add a dash of Clorox to bucket before flushing the toilet.

Here is a great article about making basic soap should you run out of your supply. You can do searches on the internet and find a lot of soap and cleaner recipes. If you do that, make sure the recipes you find have basic ingredients that you would have in your storage.

How To Make Soap (I found a lady, or rather she found me at the preparedness fair who will come next spring and teach us how to make soap if we are interested. I thought it sounded like fun.)

The intention here is to provide the basic data on how to make soap from the most basic materials. There are many fancier soap recipes which make better soaps, as long as you have all the ingredients.

The first write-up assumes you can just go to a store and buy the ingredients. The second only assumes you have some animals you will be butchering and that you have been burning wood fires and cleverly saved the ashes.

Basic Method

[A. This first write-up is taken from Hulda Clarkíííís book, "The Cure for All Diseases," pages 529-530.]

A small plastic dishpan, about 10″ x 12″ A glass or enamel 2-quart saucepan 1 can of lye (sodium hydroxide), 12 ounces 3 pounds of lard, Plastic gloves [really; use eye-protection too] Water

1. Pour 3 cups of very cold water (refrigerate water overnight first) into the 2-quart saucepan. 2. Slowly and carefully add the lye, a little bit at a time, stirring it with the wooden or plastic utensil. (Use plastic gloves for this; test them for holes first.) Do not breathe the vapor or lean over the container or have children nearby. Above all use no metal. The mixture will get very hot. In olden days, a sassafras branch was used to stir, imparting a fragrance and insect deterrent for mosquitoes, lice, fleas and ticks. 3. Let cool at least one hour in a safe place. Meanwhile, the unwrapped lard should be warming up to room temperature in the plastic dishpan. 4. Slowly and carefully, pour the lye solution into the dishpan with the lard. The lard will melt. Mix thoroughly, at least 15 minutes, until it looks like thick pudding. 5. Let it set until the next morning, then cut it into bars. It will get harder after a few days. Then package.

If you wish to make soap based on olive oil, use about 48 ounces. It may need to harden for a week.

Liquid soap

Make chips from your home-made soap cake. Add enough hot water to dissolve. Add citric acid to balance the pH (7 to 8). If you do not, this soap may be too harsh for your skin.

Basic Method When There Are No Stores!

[This write-up was taken from one done by Marietta Ellis concerning the soap-making practices of colonial America, with the tense mainly changed from the past into the present.]

Saponification is a very big chemical word for the rather complex but easy to create soap making reaction. Saponification is what happens when a fatty acid meets an alkali. When fats or oils, which contain fatty acids, are mixed with a strong alkali, the alkali first splits the fats or oils into their two major parts fatty acids and glycerin. After this splitting of the fats or oils, the sodium or potassium part of the alkali joins with the fatty acid part of the fat or oils. This combination is then the potassium or sodium salt of the fatty acid. As we said at the start, this is soap.

Soap Making Takes Three Basic Steps

1. Making of the wood ash lye. 2. Rendering or cleaning the fats. 3. Mixing the fats and lye solution together and boiling the mixture to make the soap.

First Let’s Make the Lye

In making soap the first ingredient required is a liquid solution of potash commonly called lye.

The lye solution was obtained by placing wood ashes in a bottomless barrel set on a stone slab with a groove and a lip carved in it. The stone in turn rested on a pile of rocks. To prevent the ashes from getting in the solution a layer of straw and small sticks was placed in the barrel then the ashes were put on top. The lye was produced by slowly pouring water over the ashes until a brownish liquid oozed out the bottom of the barrel. This solution of potash lye was collected by allowing it to flow into the groove around the stone slab and drip down into a clay vessel at the lip of the groove.

Some colonists used an ash hopper for the making of lye instead of the barrel method. The ash hopper was kept in a shed to protect the ashes from being leached unintentionally by a rain fall. Ashes were added periodically and water was poured over at intervals to insure a continuous supply of lye. The lye dripped into a collecting vessel located beneath the hopper.

Now the Fats Are Prepared

The preparation of the fats or grease to be used in forming the soap is the next step. This consists of cleaning the fats and grease of all other impurities contained in them.

The cleaning of fats is called rendering and is the smelliest part of the soap making operation. Animal fat, when removed from the animals during butchering, must be rendered before soap of any satisfactory quality can be made from it. This rendering removes all meat tissues that still remain in the fat sections. Fat obtained from cattle is called tallow while fat obtained from pigs is called lard.

If soap is being made from grease saved from cooking fires, it is also rendered to remove all impurities that have collected in it. The waste cooking grease being saved over a period of time without the benefits of refrigeration usually become rancid, so this cleaning step is very important to make the grease sweeter. It will result in a better smelling soap. The soap made from rancid fats or grease will work just as well as soap made from sweet and clean fats but not be as pleasant to have around and use.

To render, fats and waste cooking grease are placed in a large kettle and an equal amount of water is added. Then the kettle is placed over the open fire outdoors. Soap making is an outside activity. The smell from rendering the fats is too strong to wish in anyone’s house. The mixture of fats and water are boiled until all the fats have melted. After a longer period of boiling to insure completion of melting the fats, the fire is stopped and into the kettle is placed another amount of water about equal to the first amount of water. The solution is allowed to cool down and left over night. By the next day the fats have solidified and floated to the top forming a layer of clean fat. All the impurities being not as light as the fat remain in water underneath the fat.

You may have observed this in your own kitchen. When a stew or casserole containing meat has been put in the refrigerator, you could see the next day the same fat layer.

Finally the Soap Making Can Begin
In another large kettle or pot the fat is placed with the amount of lye solution determined to be the correct amount. This is easier said than done. We will discuss it more later. Then this pot is placed over a fire again outdoors and boiled. This mixture is boiled until the soap is formed. This is determined when the mixture boils up into a thick frothy mass, and a small amount placed on the tongue causes no noticeable “bite”. This boiling process could take up to six to eight hours depending on the amount of the mixture and the strength of the lye.

Soft and Hard Soap

Soap made with wood ash lye does not make a hard soap but only a soft soap. When the fire is put out and the soap mixture allowed cooling, the next day reveals a brown jelly like substance that feels slippery to the touch, makes foam when mixed with water, and cleans. This is the soft soap the colonists had done all their hard work to produce. The soft soap is then poured into a wooden barrel and ladled out with a wooden dipper when needed.

To make hard soap, common salt is thrown in at the end of the boiling. If this is done a hard cake of soap forms in a layer at the top of the pot. As common salt may be expensive and hard to get, it is not usually wasted to make hard soap. Common salt is more valuable to give to the livestock and the preserving of foods. Soft soap works just as well as hard and for these reasons the colonists, making their own soap, did not make hard soap bars.

Difficulties in Making Soap

The hardest part is in determining if the lye is of the correct strength, as we have said. In order to learn this, the soap maker floats either a potato or an egg in the lye. If the object floats with a specified amount of its surface above the lye solution, the lye is declared fit for soap making. Most of the colonists felt that lye of the correct strength would float a potato or an egg with an area the size of a modern quarter above the surface. To make weak lye stronger, the solution can either be boiled down more or the lye solution can be poured through a new batch of ashes. To make a solution weaker, water is added [more data to be added here on how to determine the correct strength of lye].

A Pennsylvania Dutch recipe once carefully warned that a sassafras stick was the only kind of implement suitable for stirring the mixture [see Hulda Clark comment above re sassafras] and the stirring must be done always in the same direction [?].

Potash and Pearl ash Trade

Soap making and the manufacture of potash and pearl ashes were closely related trades of colonial America. Pearl ash, purified potash, because of its many industrial uses, was an important item of export for the colonies. Pearl ash, in addition to soap making, was used for making glass both in the colonies and in Europe….

Potash is the residue remaining after all the water has been driven off from the lye solution obtained from the leaching of wood ashes. Pearl ash is then made from the potash by baking it in a kiln until all the carbon impurities were burned off. The fine, white powder remaining was the Pearl ash….

End of article—–

There are several things you need to know before you begin your soap making experience.

Lye which you can either make yourself from wood ash, or purchase at a grocery store, is very irritating to the skin and can do severe damage to eyes and throats. Use extreme caution when using lye, always keeping it away from children. You should use rubber gloves and safety glasses when using lye. Follow the directions on the back of the lye box on how to handle lye. Red Devil is a popular brand of lye. You can also make your own lye by pouring water over wood ashes and saving the bi-product–lye water. The lye water is then added to fat to make soap.

Although lard is the main ingredient in soap, one can successfully substitute other oils to use in its place. Possible substitutions for lard can be sunflower, canola, or just vegetable oil. (Soap made from oil is greasier than that made of lard.) Lard can be purchased at a grocery store or a butcher shop. Crisco works!

The utensils you use in soap making should be saved for soap making use only and should not be used thereafter for food purposes. This goes for the kettle you cook the soap in too, although you might use an enamelware canning kettle to can in after using it for soap making as long as there is no direct contact with food items. Give it a good scrubbing, of course. You must not use metal pans and utensils, like aluminum, iron, tin, or Teflon for soap making. You can use cast iron (as in a kettle, if you are making it outside over a fire) or enamelware, stoneware, wood, glass or plastic.

Always add lye to cold water. Not vise-versa. Remember to stir slowly to avoid splashes. The water will start heating up once the lye is added, due to a chemical reaction. Afterwards, pour the lye solution into the fat, once again stirring slowly.

Chunks in your bar soap is caused by the separation of the lye and the lard. The chunks are the fat. If this happens, melt the mixture and add a cup of water at a time, until the mixture is thick and syrupy again.

You can make your own soap molds out of a rag-lined box or glass cake pans or casseroles. Simply slice the bars with a knife after the soap has cured for a week.

You can use kitchen grease, (drippings off meat etc.) you will need to boil it to get rid of any meat residue, the grease will float to the top and you can skim it off.

To make 9 lbs of soap you need 6 lbs of grease

Homemade soap is not as drying as commercial
To make your own lye—Place wood ashes in a cut off Clorox bottle which has small holes punched in the bottom. Place several layers of cloth in bottom, then ashes on top. Pour boiling water over ashes, allowing the water to slowly drip through into suitable container do not use aluminum (lye is very poisonous keep out of reach of children)
Keep vinegar handy in case you get lye on your skin.

How to Make Laundry Soap—–
You will need a big pot. Do not use aluminum,
Wooden stick, a tree branch works
Cheese cloth or sieve (sieve is easer to clean after
Something to pour the soap into, either glass or enamel or you can use little boxes or cartons, or a pan and cut it into chunks. (Shoe boxes work great)

Bar Soap for Laundry
10 cups animal fat (clarified and strained)
1 lb lye
1 cup bleach
1 qt of rain water
Warm the fat to consistency of warm honey. If fat is too hot it will curdle the soap. Add cool water into another pot. Add lye and stir hard until it is dissolved. Don’t stand over the mixture. Add bleach and continue to stir until mixture is cool. (Lye heats the water) Pour fat into lye mixture very slowly. Stir constantly for 25 minutes until thick and creamy. Pour into molds and allow to stand several days before set. Cut into bars and wrap in brown paper sacks.
Granulated Soap for Laundry
2 ½ quarts cleaned grease
2 ½ qts. water
1 can lye
½ cup borax
1 cup bleach
½ cup ammonia
Warm the fat to consistency of warm honey to be poured into lye mixture. Put water into container and stir till dissolved. Add borax and stir until dissolved. Add grease slowly. Add bleach slowly and continue stirring until mixed. Stir very 30 minutes through the day. Next morning break up as much as you can or grate with a cheese grater.
House Cleaners
Wall or Floor Cleaner
1 gallon water
1 cup ammonia
1/4 cup vinegar

1/4 cup soda.
(Leave out soda if your walls are shiny.)
Window Cleaner
1 pint rubbing alcohol
1 ½ tbls ammonia
1 tsp dish detergent
Wallpaper Cleaner
1 cup flour
1 T. salt
1 tsp. kerosene
2 tsp. ammonia
2 tsp. vinegar
1/2 cup warm water
Mix and boil for 2 or 3 minutes, stirring constantly. Cool, knead and form into balls. Rub over paper, discarding the balls as they become soiled.
Floor Cleaner
1/2 c. white vinegar
1 c. warm water
Mix and use on vinyl floors.
Drain Opener
1/2 c. baking soda
1/2 c. vinegar
Pour baking soda and then vinegar down the drain. Seal for 10-15 minutes then rinse with boiling water. Repeat if necessary.

Glass Cleaner
1/4 c. white vinegar
1 quart water
Pour into a spray bottle and spray on windows. Wipe dry with a crumpled newspaper.
Dishwasher Detergent
Sprinkle dirty dishes with baking soda and start machine. During the wash cycle, add a small amount of bleach to sanitize your dishes.
Scouring Powder for Sinks
Use Baking soda to scrub grime. Vinegar will loosen lime deposits, and a bit of bleach will disinfect
Challenge -
Buy a package of soap for your storage!

Used with permission from Marcia Lind of the Maple Valley Stake, WA

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Sanitation

Posted by On October - 28 - 2008


“Sanitation”

If you have food to eat, you have a sanitation issue, from personal cleanliness to food preparation. This is a most critical area of concern especially if we are in a disaster type situation. If your family gets sick from poor hygiene or poor habits, it won’t matter how much food you have stored.

“After awhile, even gold can lose its luster. But there is no luxury in war quite like toilet paper. Its surplus value is greater than gold.” (Sorry I can’t find the author of this truism! After the info I present to you, I think you will agree with this assessment!)

Toilet paper is a recent luxury, so what did all our ancestors use???
- Corn cobs soaked in a rain barrel

- Mussel shells

- A “gompf stick” that was kept in a container by the privy, but this was late period

- Irish and Scandinavian ancients used moss

-Romans washed up with water

- Both linen and wool cloth scraps have been found in ancient privies, scraps from old clothing

- discarded locks of sheep’s wool, which would make sense from skirting fleeces

- Hay-balls
- Straw

-smooth rocks

- sailors used the ends of frayed anchor ropes On Frontier House, they said settlers in the 1800′s each used their own rag and washed it after.

A little about the corn cobs – Old privies had a hole in the side wall to dispose of the corn cob and this was called a “corn hole.” Now you know where the expression (“corn holed”) comes from. To prepare the cob, you take two dried corn cobs, and rub them together so as to make a nice soft frayed surface. Then you use it and dispose of the cob through the corn hole afterwards. Those were plowed under since there was such a small percentage of offensive material in them.

When I was a little girl my grandparents lived in Gem, Kansas. They didn’t get an indoor bathroom until the late fifties. They had the coolest three hole outhouse, two adult size and one little one built for my mom and her sister. I remember toilet paper out there but my mom says when she was growing up they used the prior year volume of Sears Catalog. It was made at that time of the same paper that phone books are made of. The idea was to take a page and smash and rub it in your hands to soften it up.

What do people use now if they do not use TP?

The Europeans have had this down for a while, they are called Bidet’s.

Others use a damp cloth, and then wash the cloth. Use a diaper pail or something until a washing load is ready. By the way, half diapers are great – dampen one end, wipe, and use the dry half to dry. (Make sure not to use these cloths to wash your face) Some cultures use their left hand; their right hand is for eating. Other’s use leaves, (be watchful for poison ivy!)
I myself would put toilet paper high on my storage list!

How much Toilet Paper do I need to store?
It has been suggested that each person needs a roll per week. The best brand of TP I have found so far to be the best value is Scott. Try to buy a big package of it every time you go shopping, or buy it on sale. It is bulky and cumbersome to store, but that is ok!

Babies and Diapers
Since most people use disposable diapers, many do not have cloth diapers in storage. If disposables were not available, you would need cloth diapers, pins and plastic pants. You need to make note of how many diapers your baby goes through each day. You need at least 3 days worth of diapers. You also need to have 2-3 pairs of plastic pants per day and at least 4 sets of pins. I don’t like to mention store names, but Wal-Mart is the only store that carries these things regularly.) You also need to make sure you have a rash cream for your baby; you need 20 oz for every year of age your child is that is in diapers.

Baby Wipe Recipe
1 cup warm water, 1 tablespoon lotion, 1 tablespoon baby wash. Mix well. Put soft paper towels that have been cut in half in air tight container and cover with liquid.

Waste Disposal (It shows how blessed we are that we really don’t know how to deal with this subject and turn our noses up at it.)
What would happen to our world if the toilets no longer flushed? Few things can spread disease faster; attract more flies, vermin and rodents than the improper storage of human waste. It has been speculated that some of the deadly diseases of the Middle Ages in Europe were spread mainly by the inadequate sewage systems of the time. Failure to properly dispose of human waster can lead to epidemics such as typhoid, cholera, dysentery, nausea and diarrhea.

This is a very brief outline of these things.
So how do we deal with this waste?
Toilet – No running water. We could still use our potties if there weren’t any broken sewer lines. The water uses the gravity system. You would need to use grey water to flush the toilets. They would have to be flushed less often to save on water use.

Toilet – Can not flush Place a one gallon bucket inside the empty toilet and a plastic bag inside the bucket. When the toilet is used, tie up the bag and dispose of. You will need to bury it, if garbage services are not available. Buckets – This is the easiest thing for an indoor waste disposal system if the toilets couldn’t be used. Put a heavy duty trash bag inside a 5 gallon bucket as a liner. You will need a bucket for urine and a bucket for excrement. After each use add a little dirt, kitty liter, or sawdust. When they are full, pour out the urine in a location far from your water source. Use a shovel to dig a hole and bury the excrement. You can even add a comfortable toilet seat to the bucket. A family of four will fill this in about 4 days.
Portable Toilet – Portable toilets are available in the camping section of your local retail store and are miniature versions of a porta potty. They hold a reservoir of water that flushes the waste into a storage container. (Keep in mind you would have to empty this often. When we were at girl’s camp we had 200 people and we filled about 4 full size porta potties in 4 days.)
The Outhouse – This is very efficient and low cost. Find a place away from your water source, dig a hole, place a protective covering around it, with a with seat with a hole in it. and it is ready to go. This is one that you don’t have to worry about sanitation and moving waste from in the house. Make sure that everyone washes their hands after. (Also make sure the door has something on it a leather strap split to go over a nail or whatever to keep little children from wandering in and falling in the hole.) (Lime can be used but must be used with caution to keep the smell down.)
What if I Run Out of TP – You can use a cake pan that has a sealed cover on it. Put several layers from magazines, newspapers, telephone books etc. Add a little water to the paper and seal it up. It softens the paper and moistens it just a bit so there isn’t the irritation that too rough of paper can create.
Other ideas – duplicate what has been done in the past.
Preventing the Spread of Disease
It is vitally important to wash your hands after using the bathroom, particularly if there are water shortages. If you have to use outside facilities like an outhouse you might want to hang a water bag filled with water with bleach in it to rinse your hands after going potty.
Other suggested items to be stored would be:
Antibacterial soaps
Baby wipes
Bar soap
Liquid soap with pump
Hand towels-(you will need more than you normally do)
“Rags” for cleaning up messes
Paper towels for the short haul
Used with permission from Marcia Lind Maple Valley Stake, WA

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Identifying Mormons for Proposition 8

Posted by On October - 28 - 2008

I just read an article written by Allen Wyatt at fairlds.org.  As I understand it, whoever has donated money towards supporting Proposition 8, it is a matter of public record, but a woman named Nadine Hansen is asking others to identify which of those donors are Mormon.  For what purpose?  Why are the Mormon donations anymore noteworthy than those of Catholics, Baptists, Jews, etc.? 

One Mormon couple identified as having contributed $30,000 has had an SUV parked in front of their house with a message painted on it, “Bigots live here.”  I don’t suppose those who oppose Proposition 8 would appreciate similar intimidation with a sign that says, “(Insert homosexual slur) live here.” 

I know people are passionate about this issue, but I feel this is encouraging violence.  This is the equivalent of placing a target on someone’s back and all we can do is hope that no one will feel justified in harming anyone.

It’s a sensitive issue, I know.  Each side feels strongly about their position.  Those of us who are against same-sex marriage, we will be called bigots by many people (a label I reject in this case).  But we are just as entitled to our opinion on this issue as anyone else.  We have valid concerns.  Can anyone really forsee all of the consequences of legalizing same-sex marriage?  I doubt it.  And I don’t care for my family to be a part of such an experiment.  I don’t know what causes same-sex attraction and I feel for anyone who experiences this.  I don’t know what causes many trials in this life and I can’t bring myself to support anything I find psychologically damaging or a threat to religious freedoms.

A Catholic Charity in Boston had been doing adoptions for 100 years and stopped when new anti-discrimination laws required them to adopt children to gay couples.  I wouldn’t have imagined this would happen, because we have the freedom of religion in this country, so this was a shock to me.  In our church, we also have adoption agencies and they offer their services at a much more affordable rate than others.  My husband was adopted and his birth mother specifically requested a Mormon family for him even though she herself was not Mormon.

If same-sex marriage is legalized throughout the country and found by the majority to be a huge mistake, then what?  How difficult would it be to undo?  Karenrose wrote an excellent article here on the ways this decision could impact everyone.

Please consider this issue carefully and if you still disagree with the church’s stance, at least do so peacefully and preserve the safety of those who believe that marriage should remain an institution involving one man and one woman.

I was just hoping…TAGGED!

Posted by On October - 27 - 2008

First, I want to say that I love how blogs help me keep in touch with people I normally don’t talk to on a regular basis. There are a lot of people in my life that mean a lot to me, but it’s just not in my nature to call them up and chit-chat. So, if you’re reading my blog, you’re probably one of those people who let me peep in on what’s happening in your life and I want to say, “Thank you-you’re special to me.”

My sister-in-law Shauna had a blog post last week about being “tagged” and I thought it was so cool and have been secretly hoping someone would “tag” me. Then, today, I had some free time and realized I hadn’t read Annie’s blog for quite some time. As I scrolled down I found her “tagged” entry and realized my name was at the bottom. Now, Annie knows a lot of people and Michelle is a pretty popular name, but I’m pretending there’s only me and here are my 7 weird things:

1. I rode on the head of an elephant in Thailand because I was the only one in our group wearing trousers.
2. When I have insomnia I flip upside down in the bed and fall asleep in minutes (which freaks Ben out when he wakes up with my feet in his face)
3. I rub my nose up and down like a rabbit when it itches.
4. I usually only have 1-2 friends at a time and they change as I cycle through life and that doesn’t make me sad.
5. I use the Internet to find recipes for 90% of my meals and then never remember to make the same thing more than once.
6. I hate being cold-and am pretty much always cold-but I LOVED living in Fairbanks in the winter.
7. I was born with an extra thumb on my right hand and had it removed when I was 6-weeks old.

That’s me. Now I tag: Brooke, Kathy, Maren, Dawn, & Jody

Miracles Happen

Posted by On October - 27 - 2008

I wrote here about my uncle’s horrible accident this week and I am happy to report that he is doing better!  He finally made it through surgery and is now full of metal plates and other foreign objects.  His neck brace has been removed, his blood pressure is better, and my mom said he raised his eyebrows while she was talking to him, but he is still mostly out.  When he starts to feel the pain, he flails around and they have to give him more medication.  He is still on the ventilator for now and hopefully he won’t need that for long.  I’m looking forward to being able to talk to him again.

My uncle won’t be able to come home for about 4 months.  He’ll be in the hospital for at least another few weeks and then in a rehab facility for months after that.  He still needs lots of prayers as this will be a very hard recovery.  The only person I can think to compare him to would be Bob Ross, the happy guy who does that painting show, only not quite as cheesy, but very kind, gentle, loves nature, and wouldn’t hurt a fly.  Whenever I visit my uncle, he is always smiling and friendly, and I have never heard him say a mean thing about anyone.  I love his laugh.  It will be another miracle to hear him laugh again, which I hope he will soon.

I am so grateful for prayer and all the people who have offered them on his behalf.  My family has had a lot of faith that he could pull through and also acceptance of the worst possibly happening.  This experience has also brought my mom and her sisters closer together and I believe this will strengthen my aunt and uncle’s marriage as she helps him through this trial.  They are normally so independent, they hardly do anything together.

Please pray for my uncle’s healing, for their marriage, and for my family to continue to help them both through this ordeal.

Adventures in Popayan and Neiva

Posted by On October - 25 - 2008
Us in Neiva just before the training and then below a multiple family fiesta after the training.


I have several posts that are partially done but wanted to get some pictures up of the latest adventrues of a ¨Mormon Missionary Couple¨. We have been traveling again. In the last few weeks we have been to both Popáyan and Neiva. Both of these towns are small by Colombian standards Popayan is approximately 300,000 and Neiva is approximately 100,000. Popayan is over 400 years old. It was founded in 1532 and served as the capital of a region that is now Colombia and Equador. We stayed in a monostary that has been converted into a Hotel in Popayan. It is over 200 years old and much of the funiture is antique. Both areas are having some difficulties so road trips are off for us. We had to fly into each city seperately and then fly back to Bogota without leaving the city.
The Pan American Highway runs right outside the city in Popayan. There are a group of indiginous peoples who are protesting some government policies. They are not a part of FARC and have a different agenda but they attached the riot police with clubs and slingshots and spears on the Pan American Highway the day we were in Popayan. The riot police tried to contain them withoug using guns but there were casualties on both sides. That situation was going on while we were in Popayan but we didn´t see or hear any of it. There were extra police in the city and we had more baracades to work around then would have been usual.

Below is a map of Colombia showing the area where we were and then the next map has arrows to the two cities. I will add a brief narrative to each area because we had great experiences in both places. Neiva was even more secure than Popayan because the week before we left, FARC blew up the hotel we were supposed to stay in. (We stayed in a different hotel when we got there since they managed to level the first one), We are alive and well and will probably not be traveling out of the city until after the 1st of the year (not because of danger but because there is so much trianing going on right now.) The couple assigned to humanitarian services is traveling to several places and with the help of a humanitarian part time physicaian and his wife are putting on trainings for physicians on neonatal recessitation. The Church provides the kits, including a pactice full functioning neonatal training doll so that that the physicians that are trained can train others and all the equipment that is needed to do recessitations. That couple doesn´t really interfer with our travel because we are not training the same people. That couple works mostly with hospitals and clinics and public health services and the doctors and nurces attached. However, we also have a couple assigned to the Perpetual Education Fund and they are training the ward and stake leaders on how to help young people be ready to use the fund, what kinds of records are needed and how they pay back the fund when they have finished their education. They are training in most of the areas that we were headed to and the leaders were feeling a little overwhelmed with training since they also had training on tithing settlement issues from the area office. Since the next audit will be conducted in Februray we will do a lot of training in Jan and early February and then do follow up.

Below are shots of the downtown area of Neiva. During the day we roamed the downtown area and had fun ¨people watching¨. They were also watching us since we were obviously North American. My Spanish is getting better and I speak spanish when I am in the streets but I still sound like a gringa.
Neiva is out of the Mountains and is hot. It was 92 while we were there. Because of the Bombing last week they blocked off the hotel that we were in after dark (not just because of us but because it is the second best hotel in the city and they didn´t want to loose another one. We were out with the Stake president to a combination birthday, just got married, and one other thing fiesta. There were about 8 couples. The Stake President and his wife, two of the 6 bishops and wives and several members all of whom had worked and served together for some time. The party was planned for some time we just were last minute addtions. One of the sisters made tacos and we played Uno. Uno is the same the world around. In Colombia there are a few extra rules that I didn´t know about so I managed to accumulate a rather large group of cards. However, they also have a pass the hand to the left card so I ended up with only 4 cards (dads hand) and gave the girl next to me about 16. I still managed to loose but we had fun.

These cities are really vibrant. Most of these pictures were taken about 10 am on a Saturday morning.
Darwin doesn´t like this picture because he just stuffed something in his mouth but I think it is great.



We went to Popayan first. We flew in, had a training and then left at about 3:00 the next afternoon. Popayan is a special place for the humanitarian services department. They have partnered with a university there and put together a demonstration garden to help people in the city learn how to grow things efficiently, how to store them and how to prepare them. The garden has been wildly successful and the city really loves the Church because of what has gone on with the Garden (One of the food agencies with the UN was coming in the next day after we left to look at how the gardin is set up and how it is used to teach self sufficiency) so when the Humanitarian department proposed distributing eye glasses to those in need who could not afford them ages 6-10 and 60 and over, the people in the city who knew about the garden really got behind it.

The manager of the garden served as liason between the community and the church. and a steering committee that included the mayor´s wife, a local MD, an optomitrist and heads of several agencies who were already learning how to do gardens in their own areas was set up. The Church told the community that they would provide the glasses if the community would set up the screening and make sure that the distribution was to the most needy.

This community really got organized. The optomitrist worked with others and got the optomitirists of the city to donate eye exams for children in poverty areas, orphanages and in special programs the city already had running for children from proverty stricken families. They also provided eye exams for all nursing home residents and others over 60 who were too poverty stricken to be able to afford the exams. The MD (a really shape female named Nancy) and the mayors wife set up a record keeping program so that they could keep track of the perscriptions and what glasses needed to go where.

Over 9,000 people were screened and thousands of pairs of glasses were despensed. The morning before our flight in the afternoon happened to be a day when several hundred pairs of glasses arrived. They were totally prepared. They boxed them by agency and had the agency heads come to a ceremoney where the glasses were handed out.

Since Darwin and I were the visiting diginarities, (even though we are not with the humanitarian department and even though we did not consider ourselves dignitaries) we represented the Church at the ceremony along with the manager of the garden and a pair of Elders that are assigned to Popayan. What an experience. Darwin was interviewed by the local TV stations and we ended up on all the news stations in Popayan that day. The secretary of Health and Welfare for the district was there to thank the Church for the glasses and there were genuinly excited people there.
This was the last batch of glasses in the program all the rest had already been distributed. I think they said there were about 500 in this batch. One of the families that had children screened was not with an agency and they had two of their 3 children who recieved glasses. It was so neat when the mother took her box back to her seat after recieving it and opened it and put the glasses on her sons. The picture below with the little boy is of one of her boys and Nancy the MD who coordinated the distribution program. The only members involved were the garden manager and about 6 Mormon families who met the qualifications for poverty and had their children screened. So at the ceremoney where all these boxes of glasses were given out the garden manage (who is also the district president) received the box for the Mormon kids that were given glasses.
It really was a community project and it was so neat to see what was done because they were organized. There have been other places where the Church tried to provide glasses that didn´t work nearly as well because the community didn´t get behind it and provide the man power to get the screenings and distribution done right. In this case the Church just wants to be a part of the process, not come in and run the whole show.
Below are the pictures of the ceremony are some pictures of the converted monostarystary